The seminar at the Growth and Career Library examines the story of a couple who decided to finance their "perfect wedding" with a loan. Together with a psychologist and a financial advisor, participants explore how debts change trust, conversations about money, and the sense of the future, and learn to notice the first alarming signals in relationships. When the conversation about the wedding turns into a conversation about credit, the romantic plot sharply changes tone. In the seminar, participants analyze step by step the real story of a couple who decided to start their family life with a large loan for the sake of an "ideal celebration" and faced the consequences long after the fireworks and social media photos. The psychologist shows how joint debts subtly affect trust, the distribution of responsibility, and the sense of support for each other. The fear of not being able to make payments, shame over purchases, hidden expenses, and avoidance of conversations about money gradually turn into a separate line of tension in the relationship that is already difficult to ignore. The financial advisor discusses the financial side of the story: what happens to the budget when the monthly loan payment becomes a mandatory backdrop of life, how habits, future plans, and the sense of freedom change. Participants learn to view large expenses not only from an emotional perspective but also through numbers, risks, and long-term consequences. A separate block of the meeting is dedicated to how young couples can talk about money before and after the wedding. The discussion will cover differences in financial scenarios that people bring from their families of origin, the feelings that arise when discussing expenses, and why the topic of budgeting can exacerbate old grievances and hidden expectations. It is important that the seminar does not provide ready-made recipes for a "correct" family. Instead, participants try to look at their decisions in a new way: where there is care and where there is an attempt to impress; where it is about a shared future and where it is about the desire to meet others' expectations and images from advertisements. All entertainment in St. Petersburg is collected on our website.