Sometimes we continue to live by the rules we learned in childhood, without even noticing it. Before the New Year is the perfect time to understand why the desire to be "good" sometimes hinders us from living honestly with ourselves. The New Year period is traditionally associated with summarizing the year, a desire for change, and returning to important topics. At the meeting, they will discuss the phenomenon of "goodness" - the desire to meet the expectations of others, to please, and to earn attention at the cost of our own feelings. Participants will discuss why it is so difficult for us to give up the role of the accommodating person, where the expectation of a "reward" for efforts comes from, and how this scenario affects relationships, self-esteem, and emotional state. Using transactional analysis tools, they will analyze how such behavior patterns are formed and what helps to gradually free ourselves from them. The meeting will become a soft and supportive space where one can honestly look at oneself and take a step towards inner freedom. Registration - via the link. How to celebrate the New Year in St. Petersburg, read on KUDAGO.